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Parent: *tells child they’re overreacting every time they speak up about poor mental health*
Child: *never tells parent what’s wrong until they break into a screaming match with parent*
Parent:
Parent: *immediately dismisses or laughs at child’s ideas about plans, future and clothes choices, without consideration even when asked for ideas.*
Child: *becomes indecisive or never gives ideas because they’ll just be dismissed regardless of how good they are. Answers every question with ‘I don’t mind/ care.*
Parent:
Child: *shows parent art they’re proud of*
Parent: *points out bad parts of art, makes fun of it, grimaces at it*
Child: *doesn’t show parent any more art*
Parent:
Child: *tells parent about their interests*
Parent: *seems inconvenienced/annoyed/isn’t even listening or paying attention, or worse, makes fun of them for liking said interest*
You cannot get mad at your significant other for expressing what upsets them. You can’t. Even if it isn’t deep to you, it may be a serious matter to them. They’re upset for a reason. Genuine consideration is key.